Finding Blanche

Nothing stays the same.

Archive for November, 2008

Do you know what this means?

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This is the last child-safety plug in our house. I didn’t even realize we still had any until I set up the Aerobed in the basement for Max over the holiday weekend.

Today, Amy talked about how having an overloaded laundry basket was way worth it to have her daughter home for the holiday. I can’t imagine those days. (And I can’t imagine not hating laundry, either.)

I’m still walking past the bin of Brio trains wondering when the boys stopped playing with them. I still get excited when they start a Lego project together.

I love the kids big. Well, big is a relative term, I know.

I love them bigger. They’re interesting and fun and great to talk to. But I miss having my little cuddle bunnies.

And, aside from Reed on occasion, it’s really weird that I no longer have to worry about anyone putting his fingers or metal objects in the sockets.

I’m in knots.

The morning after one of the biggest meals of the year.

What to do?

Here’s an idea. Let’s bake!

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We decided to give pretzels a try!

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I admit they are not beautiful. We were experimenting having never made these before. I think I’d like to make them bigger next time so they look more spread out. More like Auntie Anne’s.

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It’s a little ‘chunky’ but they smell amazing, and, if I must say so myself, they are pretty darn tasty.

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And you have to admit that the pretzel above bears a spooky resemblance to….

The Natty Bo guy!

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Bloody grateful.

It’s early on Thanksgiving morning. And while hanging out in my comfy cozy bed sounded like something to be grateful for, I decided to join Andrew to donate blood instead.

It seems he has special blood and never had some weirdo virus and so the Red Cross calls him constantly. And he gives almost as frequently.

My blood? Nothing special but they always need O+ and I find donating pretty easy – no muss, no fuss.

I failed the iron test. I gave up the warm, cuddly bed for this?

I asked for a re-test.

And I thought ironic thoughts.

It worked.

I am grateful for so many things. My family, friends, health, business, my bed…oops lost my concentration there for a second.

Must be the blood loss.

Happy Thanksgiving. I wish health and happiness and squash soup and pumpkin ravioli and turkey and pecan pie and peace for all.

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Yes, I hereby nominate myself for mother of the year.

I forgot my kid’s parent-teacher conference.

I’m so proud.

I’m inspired.

I slept in this morning.

I mean really, really slept. It was heavenly.

When my eyes finally opened at 10:00 a.m., the house was quiet. I knew that Andrew had taken the boys to religious school and that he was somewhere in the house. I reached over, picked up the phone and called the other line.

“Ready for coffee?” he asked.

Now that’s service.

Once I read the paper, it was time to start making pasta again. We’d made some last night, but need to make a better dough before making some for our Thanksgiving dinner. So I mixed and rolled. And the spaghetti came out pretty well.

Still, I need more practice. Fortunately, having more homemade pasta is not a bad thing.

After the boys got home, it was time to hang up the apron and head out the the Visionary Arts Museum.

What an amazing place!

No photos inside, or I’d have filled this post with pix that’d amaze you. But you’re going to have to go see for yourself. Suffice it to say, the art is inspiring. The stories beyond believability.

The boys hadn’t wanted to go. But each found inspiration and something he’d have been sad to have missed.

And I got to see a film about painted window screens and a bigger than life paper-mache/sculpture of Divine (seriously double life size & rotating!).

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In front of a mirrored mosaic bus.

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Life-sized chess board made from weird metal parts!

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Tapestries and lights.

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Mosaic egg. It’s huge! Our 10 year old asked, “Is that supposed to be a Faberge Egg?” He knows what that is? Crazy, man!

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View of Federal Hill from the museum.

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What we saw today and the conversation that ensued….

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Can you imagine the dinner conversation?

Well. Suffice it to say, the 2 that didn’t know that word did know what it was. And there were some pretty darn red faces.

The answer.

I’m sitting here at BWI at 6 am. Been up since 4:30. It sure is quiet here because evidently most normal people don’t wake up this early.

But I’m heading to a meeting in Kentucky to present a report I’ve worked on for what seems like years ( but really is only a month or so.)

But I think I’ve found the answer.

I read all those productivity blogs and management rags. But here it is right in front of me.

The answer to greater productivity.

Sleep less.

Yes, you can have it all.

Well. All except rest and a perky demeanor.

Time flies when you’re having fun.

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My little bucket-head is double-digits. Yup, he’s 10 years old.

Hard to believe.

Thank goodness he still loves to cuddle. Otherwise, I might have to get a puppy.

Unplugged

I think I have a problem. I can’t turn it off. Or maybe I just won’t.

I’m on a train on the way home from New York – just pulling away from the Metropark Station.

And I’m blogging. And listening to This American Life. And checking my email intermittently.

Crazy.

But I’m really happy because I love these things and when I get home to the boys I’m going to want to be with them & not be distracted by technology.

But I digress.

New York fascinates me. I love watching people and there were so many people to watch. I mean so, so many. Which leads me to one of the things I hate about New York.

The crowds.

I abhor crowds.

And traffic and being in a taxi driven by a normal enough looking guy who was clearly being channeled by Evel Knevel.

I detest the smell of the subway entrance.

And yet. It’s one of the most amazing places in the world.

Times Square at night is an awesome sight. The food is beyond. We had dinner last night at Olana & it ranks among the best I’ve ever had. Taboon on Friday night was delicious for apps. We had dinner later at Aroma.

We stayed in an apartment in Hell’s Kitchen. Very different than in Sleepers. We walked and talked an laughed.

And shopped. (got a work outfit and a nice outfit)

And all in less than 48 hours.

Loved it.

But can’t wait to get home to what I love the most – being with Andrew and the boys.

The view from our window.

Washington Square Park is closed and under construction. But still, there are guys by the chess tables at night calling out in a loud whisper, “Moke, moke.” Good to know the construction hasn’t dampened business.

Subway signs at 50th Street.

Aroma Restaurant – East 4th near Bowery. We ate in the wine cellar. It was very cool – literally and figuratively.

Another view from our place.

Bleachers set up for the upcoming T-Day parade.

These are in the backseat of the taxis. Very cool – Zagat’s, maps, more.

Breakfast at Sarabeth’s – delish!

Olana was really pretty…

We didn’t get to the show (they don’t film on weekends anyway) but we did walk past the building in Hell’s Kitchen. Couldn’t pass up the photo op.

New York, New York…big city of dreams.

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Grand Central Station by dusk.

And martinis by dark.

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